YOUR VOICE DETERMINES YOUR LIFE!

When a baby is born, everyone waits to hear the voice that announces the child’s arrival. They make a very loud sound when they cry, which signifies that they are tired, hungry, or in pain. They are trying to communicate with all the noises they can make.

We are unique in that we start our lives trying to communicate verbally, even when we don’t yet have the language skills. 

The voice is the most powerful instrument in the human body.

That’s why singing is so effective in penetrating our hearts.
Know that, “Your voice is the mirror to your soul.” 

How effectively you are using your voice will determine your success in love relationships, business, dreams, career, and every single aspect of life! Your voice transmits your feelings, emotions, hurts, wants, and needs from you to others.

I’ve been a public speaking trainer for the past 28 years, and I’ve noticed that people around the world have more problems communicating now more than ever before. One of the reasons is the emergence of the digital age. We’ve started texting, twitting, and emailing as a way to communicate. Therefore, interpersonal relationships have suffered greatly. A recent survey said that people feel more comfortable expressing their feelings by texting rather than speaking to that person. That is so sad!

I’ve also noticed that people have vocal blocks given to them by their family, friends, or teachers. A vocal block is when you were told to be quiet as a child when you wanted to say something. They made you feel as though you have nothing of value to say. This affects a child’s voice greatly. Another common vocal block is when you were told to stop singing or were severely shamed and ostracized in school for having different opinions!

IMPROVING YOUR VOCAL SKILLS – IMPROVES YOUR LIFE! 

When you’re unable to communicate fully you lose a huge part of yourself.

In business having powerful verbal skills are crucial if you want to improve productivity and have a more talented workforce. Only confident communicators can bring clarity and direction to a company. The ability to be a dynamic speaker is a skill you must acquire. A great speaker is someone who can transform the listener not just give them directions or information. This is not an easy thing to do, but with training and practice, one voice can change the world.

How you communicate will determine the quality of your life, relationships and it has the ability to resolve or prevent problems. If you want to be acknowledged you must be heard. This is also a big problem. The sound, tone, loudness, facial expressions, and body language while speaking are all major factors. If we cannot hear you, we don’t care what you are saying.

A speech without emotions and passion is meaningless. Emotions and passion gets people’s attention, trust, interest and will give you the ability to persuade others. When you improve your speaking and communication skills, your self-esteem gets better. How you communicate also affects how much money you will earn during your lifetime.

I want you to express yourself fully because then you will become a better partner, parent, friend, co-worker, and human being. Once you let your inner voice express itself, you will discover your talents, gifts, and ideas.

“One voice at the right pitch can start an avalanche”

Write us at bernard@bernardhiller.com and we will send you some exercises you can use to improve the power and effectiveness of your voice.

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